The Scottsdale Real Estate Files: Respect Our Veterans

Respect Our Veterans

He didn’t have to do it.  In fact, he probably shouldn’t have.  He should have coerced the scout to do his job.  Instead, my father took the lead through the suspicious pass during a reconnaissance patrol and gave his limbs to the jungle of Southeast Asia.

My maternal grandfather was too young to serve.  That didn’t stop him, however.  After the attack on Pearl Harbor, he enlisted under a phony birth date and would eventually participate in the Battle of the Bulge.  I like to think that Grandpa regaled his German counterparts with stories for hours on end to coax their eventual surrender.

My paternal grandfather gave his country two years of his life in a German prisoner of war camp.  In reality, he gave far more.  The untold stress of the experience would eventually shave years off of his life.  One of the great laments of my own existence is not having any recollection of Grandpa Slaybaugh.

Strong men with strong partners.  That is who I thank specifically on this day of remembrance and observance. 

All who have donned the uniform to protect our way of life and keep safe those who cannot do so themselves.  That is who I thank broadly.

Shake a veteran’s hand today.  Your respect is free, their sacrifice is not.

 

 

*** As some know, my father is an inactive member of Active Rain.  I would be indebted to all who would be kind enough to visit his blog and wish him well today.

http://activerain.com/blogs/houseseller

 

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Comments

It just seems that a thank you is not enough....but it is what I have to give. So THANK YOU to all the veterans who have sacrificed so much for me.

Posted by Mandi Perkins (AZ Big Sky Realty, Inc.) over 3 years ago

Hi Paul!  Thanks for sharing your personal story--Love of Country is dwindling for some reason these days.  I applaud both your father and grandfather for their service and sacrifice for MY freedoms as well as all Americans' freedoms.  I am so proud of them and all veterans who have given so much of themselves for others.

Debe in Charlotte

Posted by Debe Maxwell - Search Charlotte Homes for Sale - Charlotte NC Neighborhoods (iCharlotteRealEstate.com Savvy + Company Real Estate) over 3 years ago

Hi Paul.  I think this is the most moving post I have read today.  Thanks.

Posted by Shirley Parks, Broker 210-414-0966 San Antonio TX Homes for Sale (Sands Realty 210-414-0966) over 3 years ago

I think if the people who criticize our country would just take a moment and remember the sacrifice's made by people like your father and grandfather they would not have anything negative to say!

Posted by Lori Franks ~ Brookings, Oregon (Real Estate Consultant) over 3 years ago

Paul - We owe them a debt of gratitude that can never be repaid. Thanks for a heartfelt tribute.

Posted by Tom Plant (WINEormous.com) over 3 years ago

Paul, This is a touching memorial to two brave men. I remember as a kid going into our attic and pouring through my Dads wartime letters. And then looking with admiration & pride  at his ww2 uniform still hanging in the attic cedar closet. He never talked about he war, but I know he was a hero, he had the medals to prove it. Tell your Dad, if he is still with us thank you for me.

Ginger

Posted by Wilmington NC Real Estate & Relocation~ Ginger Sala (Wilkinson & Associates, Wilmington NC) over 3 years ago

Mandi - Amen.

Debe - We may cast a jaded eye towards our leadership, but it should never be at the detriment of our soldiers.

Shirley - You're welcome.  Now go hug a vet :)

Lori - A patriot can question his/her government when warranted, but I loathe misplaced hostility.  There is plenty of constructive criticism that can be heaped upon Washington (and us for tolerating mismanagement), but it should never be directed at the soldier whose only responsibility is to protect our interests as those in charge deem necessary.

Tom - Very true.  I always feel a bit inadequate on November 11th.

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Ginger - Thank you for your comment.  There are actually three brave men that I pay tribute to today, but who's counting? ;)  My father is more than still with us, he's an inactive member of Active Rain!  He doesn't talk about the war much either because he considers it just a small part of his life (amazing to think that), but I would be very much obliged if you and everyone else would visit his blog to wish him well! 

http://activerain.com/blogs/houseseller

Just gave me an idea to edit my post.

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Paul - I will be stopping by your Father's blog momentarily.  Thanks for another good tribute to honor and respect our many Veterans.

Posted by Jason Sardi (I love kittens cute & My Jennifer!!) over 3 years ago

Much obliged, Sardi.

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

I am very proud of them and all the other's who have fought for us.  I'm off to say hola to your dad & thanks.  KM

Posted by Kristin Moran, San Antonio,TX~Real Estate 210-313-7397 (Owner - RE/MAX Access - KristinMoran@Remax.net) over 3 years ago

Ray Slaybaugh rocks!

I really hope to meet your dad him someday.  Please make sure he stops by AR to see all our thanks.  I know it really blows my own dad away when someone says thank you for his service.

Thank you, Ray!

Posted by Elaine Hanson, REALTOR® ~ Topanga, CA Real Estate Agent (Snyder Sutton Real Estate) over 3 years ago

24th Infantry Division

 

Paul.... very touching words at the very end.... thanks for sharing this and the stories of your family who had served.

 

Victory Division - First to Fight

jeff belonger

Posted by Jeff Belonger-The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans ( Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc) over 3 years ago

Paul, I join you in honoring your father and other fathers, sons, brothers, mothers, daughters, and sisters, and who have done for us what I couldn't.  Thank you for the post.

Posted by Judi Barrett~Integrity Real Estate Services~Idabel, Oklahoma over 3 years ago

Kristin - Thanks for visiting my pop.  He's going to wonder why the heck his year and a half old post is getting so much newfound attention ;)

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Elaine - Be sure to thank your father for me, too :)

Jeff - Thank you for your service.  We are all indebted.

Judi - Thank you for your thoughts.

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Paul- I will go by and tell your dad thanks in person.  Thank you for this post.  And if it's okay with you I'll be giving out hugs to veterans instead of handshakes, I'm southern and it's just in my nature and upbringing.

Thanks for letting my share my story about my daddy.  You and Bob who stopped by first just made me cry.  It was also amazing to me that the first two people to comment about the story about MY DADDY had profile pictures with their sons.  I know you are an amazing dad.

Posted by Tammy Lankford/Broker Lane Realty Lake Sinclair-Central GA over 3 years ago

Paul - I am very thankful for those who have served and are serving.  I have 2 nephews in the Marines now and pray for the safety of all...

Posted by Debi Ernst GRI, e-PRO, Broker/Sales Associate (St. Charles County, Missouri - Prudential Alliance Realtors) over 3 years ago

Paul, excellent story and I agree with Debi, we just pray for all to come home safely.

Posted by Karen Moorhead Ann Arbor Area Real Estate (Keller Williams Realty) over 3 years ago

After meeting Mr. Ray Slaybaugh in person and getting a chance to shake his hand and chat with him, I have even more respect for your dad.  I will go to his blog in the next few minutes to leave my formal thanks.

Posted by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653) (Austin Texas Homes, LLC) over 3 years ago

God bless veterans. Don't you love it when folks nowadays forget the price of freedom or may not have had a family member to teach them the cost of freedom of speech, thought, life?

http://activerain.com/blogsview/266504/Some-Gave-All-Many-Gave-Some-Remembering-Americas-Veterans

Posted by Andrew Mooers | Northern Maine Real Estate / Aroostook County Broker (MOOERS REALTY) over 3 years ago

Paul - thank you for sharing that.  Your big heart is showing.  I will go visit your dad's blog!

Posted by Christine Bohn, Gainesville, FL Realtor® (RE/MAX Professionals) over 3 years ago

You are so good! I just dropped by your Dad's blog and said Hello and Thank You!

Posted by Russell Lewis, Broker,CLHMS,GRI (Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate) over 3 years ago

What a beautiful lineage of Veterans! God Bless our military and their families! I will stop by your Dad's next!

Posted by Denise Williams (Benchmark Realty) over 3 years ago

Excellent post, Paul!  Thanks for sharing a moment and some of your history with the rest of us.  I am off to say hello to Ray Slaybaugh now.  :)

Posted by Amanda Hall * FORT WORTH TEXAS Real Estate Broker * (Hall Team Homes) over 3 years ago

God Bless America, and God bless our veterans, and God Bless US ALL!! 

Posted by Susan Manning (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Ok, I told stopped in and told Dad hi!  If he hits you with a shoe, it wasn't because I asked him to or anything like that.

Posted by Lisa Heindel, New Orleans Real Estate Broker (Crescent City Living LLC) over 3 years ago

I agree with your post a smile or a thank you is so easy to do. I appreciate you taking the time to write it. I also sent a welcome to your dad.

Posted by Lisa Long (Platinum Properties) over 3 years ago

I stopped in your Dad's post and thanked him - isn't it great to have really good genes and know that your looks won't fade?  Lucky you......

Oh, and I am spending the night parked on your Dad's blog waiting on hin to hit you and Sardi with a shoe and I didn't start it....(I am sorry to say....miss us me?)

Posted by Chapman Realty Homes Brunswick Georgia over 3 years ago

Hey your dad's hot!  I'm a sucker for a guy with whiskers.

Posted by Georgina M. Hunter R(S) e-Pro Maui Real Estate Sales (Jim Sanders Realty Inc. - Maui) over 3 years ago

Of course he is, Georgina ;)

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Julie - There will be no shoe battery this evening.  Not on that blog at least.  Sorry to disappoint.  We could always dial up a good fragging on Lisa's blog, though.

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Stick a sparkler in it, Slaybaugh.

Posted by Lisa Heindel, New Orleans Real Estate Broker (Crescent City Living LLC) over 3 years ago

Shoes come in pairs, so it's only appropriate to use both of them. 

Posted by Elaine Hanson, REALTOR® ~ Topanga, CA Real Estate Agent (Snyder Sutton Real Estate) over 3 years ago

Driveby heelings on Veteran's Day?  For shame, ladies.  For shame.

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Hi Paul...How can your dad not have plenty he'd like to share with us?  That has to be impossible.

We all expect to hear from him shortly.

Kate

Posted by Kate Elim, Realtor® 540-226-1964 Selling Homes & Land at LAKE ANNA over 3 years ago

Did anyone read Paul's Dad's profile..(and he uses his real name and even refers to Paul as being related)

..take your time and go back and read the profile....I subscribed to his blog and made myself an associate....I always wanted to be associated with someone as wonderful as he is.....just ask him....(intelligence, confidence and a wicked sense of humor is genetic or contagious).

(Paul.....are we related? My son plans to be President and when he becomes President is going to have his own religion - which he so obviously is going to name The Church of John and my brother, after my sister and I moved out, had a ceremony where my parents crowned him King). 

 

Posted by Chapman Realty Homes Brunswick Georgia over 3 years ago

Paul ... today is a day to remember all ove our service members.  Great post.

Posted by Roland Woodworth,SFR - Clarksville Short Sale and Foreclosure Resource (Keller Williams Realty) over 3 years ago

Paul - Thank you for sharing such a moving post today.  Men like your dad and your grandfathers are our true heroes.  God Bless them and God Bless America. I'm off to give your Dad my personal thanks.

Posted by Donna Bigda REALTOR® Greater New Haven CT Homes & Condos (RE/MAX Alliance) over 3 years ago

Paul, Thanks so much for sharing this with us.  I went to your Dad's post.  He's as cute as all the girls were saying :)  Sorry to hear he is beating you with shoes though, lol. 

Posted by Elizabeth Cooper-Golden Huntsville AL MLS - (Huntsville Alabama Real Estate, (@ Homes Realty Group)) over 3 years ago

Paul, you have a lot to be proud of. Thanks for sharing this portion.

Posted by Danny Thornton (R & D Management) over 3 years ago

Oregon has a great loan program for vets who buy here. I plug every vet I can into those loans.  The interest rate is so good.  Anything to help their lives be a little easier. 

I closed on a home a couple of weeks ago for an army soldier and my son went with me when I dropped off the keys to him. He was in uniform and my son was so excited to meet a "real live army guy."  Closing on a home for a marine in Dec. 

I'm always thankful for the good guys and gals. 

Posted by Melina Tomson, M.S. Principal Broker/Owner (Tomson Burnham, llc Licensed in the State of Oregon) over 3 years ago

Paul,

This is an awesome tribute to your grandfather and to all who have served.  Thank you sir for the post.

Posted by Don Rogers REALTOR®, CDPE, GRI O'Fallon MO & St Charles County MO homes (RE/MAX Gold) over 3 years ago

Paul, what beautiful tribute to your grandfather and all the men and woman who served and are serving. When we have a face to think of it makes the holiday so much more real and pointed. Very heartfelt, thanks

Posted by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor-Realtor® Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor) over 3 years ago

Completely lost control of this thread. I'd like to thank everyone that not only commented here, but took the time to visit my dad's blog and leave well wishes.  It means more than you know.  My humble thanks and gratitude.

Posted by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives) over 3 years ago

Paul,

Your family has done great things for this country. I greatly appreciate all they have done. Besides I think they raised a pretty guy.

Posted by Lisa Glowacki - Rhode Island & Massachusetts over 3 years ago

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